
Redefining Leadership for Women: the Velvet Hammer Method
What if you didn’t have to choose between being powerful or compassionate as a leader?
In this episode of Rebel to Rise: Where Business Meets Human Design, I’m breaking down my signature Velvet Hammer Method, the framework that’s transformed how I lead and how I coach my clients. Think tough love wrapped in a cashmere blanket: clear, confident, and firm, yet grounded in empathy and grace.
Inside this episode, you’ll discover:
The origin of the Velvet Hammer concept and why it resonated so deeply with me.
My first “Velvet Hammer” leadership moment at just 21 years old.
The three pillars of the Velvet Hammer Method — Clarity, Business Architecture, and Magnetism — and how they help you lead with confidence and alignment.
Why emotional intelligence, boundaries, and curiosity are leadership superpowers, not soft skills.
Practical ways to embody Velvet Hammer energy in tough conversations without burning bridges.
Whether you’re running a business, leading a team, or simply tired of choosing between being “too nice” or “too harsh,” this episode will show you how to step into authentic leadership that’s both magnetic and sustainable.
Because success isn’t about abandoning yourself to fit into old leadership models. It’s about leading in a way that feels true, powerful, and unapologetically you.
✨ Tune in to learn how to become the kind of leader who makes an impact and thrives in the process.
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