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Unlearning the "Shoulds": How to Decondition with Human Design

March 22, 20251 min read
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What if the path to success isn’t about doing more, but undoing what was never meant for you?

In this episode of Rebel & Rise, I’m opening up about the deep conditioning that left me on autopilot, burned out, disconnected, and stuck in a cycle of “shoulds.” We’re talking about the real roots of burnout, why mindset work alone isn’t enough, and how to start deconditioning with human design so you can build a business (and life) that actually feels good to live. If you've ever felt like you're stuck in a cycle of doing everything "right" and what you're "supposed" to do but it's draining you, this one's for you.

🧠 P.S. If you’ve been should-ing yourself into burnout, this episode is your permission slip to do it differently.

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Topics covered in this episode:

  • What deconditioning actually means (and how it shows up in real life)

  • The sneaky ways conditioning keeps us stuck

  • How I pushed through burnout until my body forced me to stop

  • Why rest isn't selfish—it's essential

  • The difference between your personality and your programming

  • How human design can support your deconditioning journey

  • Daily ways to notice and question your "shoulds"

  • Practical steps to start unlearning today

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