
Unlearning the "Shoulds": How to Decondition with Human Design
What if the path to success isn’t about doing more, but undoing what was never meant for you?
In this episode of Rebel & Rise, I’m opening up about the deep conditioning that left me on autopilot, burned out, disconnected, and stuck in a cycle of “shoulds.” We’re talking about the real roots of burnout, why mindset work alone isn’t enough, and how to start deconditioning with human design so you can build a business (and life) that actually feels good to live. If you've ever felt like you're stuck in a cycle of doing everything "right" and what you're "supposed" to do but it's draining you, this one's for you.
🧠 P.S. If you’ve been should-ing yourself into burnout, this episode is your permission slip to do it differently.
Topics covered in this episode:
What deconditioning actually means (and how it shows up in real life)
The sneaky ways conditioning keeps us stuck
How I pushed through burnout until my body forced me to stop
Why rest isn't selfish—it's essential
The difference between your personality and your programming
How human design can support your deconditioning journey
Daily ways to notice and question your "shoulds"
Practical steps to start unlearning today
Links
Get your FREE human design chart: https://darngoodbusinesscoach.com/human-design-chart
Byron Katie's "The Work": https://thework.com/
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